Personally, I think if you build to the rules, you will have a safe vehicle. Secondly the rules only state the minimum needed for safety. you can build more systems that make your vehicle safer there are no restrictions to that.... I have seen more accidents that people walked away from at Bonneville, because of attention to detail, no shortcuts and just a well built machine...
I would be thinking, what can I do to make my vehicle safer....
I understand what you are asking in your question, but I don't think you are going to get any pictures or videos.. Every accident is different..
Your best friend would be use wisdom, build as best as you can, bring it for inspection, ask the veterans their input while on the salt with the vehicle (just for inspection), write a list of concerns you may have, ask questions and dont be afraid to not run the vehicle.
Jon