Recently I was invited to a friends wedding... invitation required a RSVP
I guess "maybe next time" was not an acceptable answer for his bride
Reminds me of a quote by David Hidalgo of the band, "Los Lobos".
Before they started recording and touring, they played a lot of weddings in and around East LA.
"If you got married in East LA in the 1970s, we played your wedding", and adds, "Probably both of them".