I am almost afraid to post this after my last thrashing, on a post over wheels. I had the same problem, but my wheels were the Summit racing wheels, they have a sixty degree conical taper. I found 1" lug nuts that had the 60 degree taper. But the wheels have a 1/4" well that swallow the hex part to the point that an impact socket becomes disingauged before proper torque and seating. I found large sixty degree 1/4" washers, I seat down the factory recommended sixty degree tapered bulge nuts then remove them one at a time while I install and torque the 1" nuts and washers. This got me through tech last year, and feels stable and safe. I run at Bonneville, there was a lakester there at tech with exactly the same wheels using the factory recommended lug nuts, they gave him a hard time but let him run, he still lives to race again.
Steve