Like speed, rude has all manor of expression, reaction and results. One person's rude/speed is another person's cause to stop and think. The end result should be that a lot of the stopping and thinking has been done before you and the value will be in the results. That is all that will last past today anyway is results.
To fold easily and edit out your remarks often means you are not comfortable with the information in the face of any other ideas.
What works for one might not work for another, but still has to work.
If everybody failed to stop and think and were afraid to try something the result would be a lot closer to the tried and true Highboy Roadster that has not been perfected yet.
You can be nice and rude or mean and rude. In the end, the results will establish the value.
You wanna see rude? Spend a bazillion dollars and get a 2 bit result. That is rude.