I don't think the issue is the stitching, so getting leathers altered by a professional should be ok. It's that zippers can fail. I'm sure I'm not alone when I say that I've had a lot more zippers bust in my life than seams in garments.
The fastest I ever went down was maybe 120mph, but it was on asphalt. Fastest dirt bailoff was maybe 70. Sliding might give you some good burns and bleeding rash, but it broken bones are less fun. Anything you can do to slide is to your advantage. And remember to wait until you're SURE you've come to a complete stop before you get up. Wait a few seconds to be sure. I flipped a dirt bike (by coincidence, at El Mirage) once going ~60 showing off, and I slid on my tail for a ways, and thought I stopped, so I tried to get up. OPPSS! I was still moving, and I did a really cool cartwheel through the air and got hurt.