So, now that you burned it down, you need to do a proper autopsy and figure out what you were really doing. It will cost you some time and maybe 5-10 lbs of N20. Duplicate your run, without the motor of course, just the N20 system. Weigh your bottle accurately, spray at your usual pressure from your normal bottle position. (If you use medical grade it will be fun) Then do the same thing for the same exact amount of time with the fuel. If you do it simultaneously it will be the most accurate test you can do. Catch and weigh the fuel, do a little division...
A/F and EGT can be helpful, but when you push that button, all that does not really matter... know your enrichment ratios. Then when you fry one up, you can check your baseline tests and see what happened, usually it is a minor thing like fuel pressure changed a PSI or the N20 solenoid froze open and fried you when the gas shut off...
Test... Test.... Test... Know your equipment and its capabilities.
Guy is right, Joe is right, everyone that has chimed in is right, you have to do it yourself and not rely on someone else (kit manufacturer) to do it right for you. What worked in one situation may not work in another, and turning up the juice will not always give the desired result.
Your situation may require the most power you can get for the shortest time (drag racing) and the motor will live, but hold the button for 5 more seconds and you detonate and burn to the ground. Eliminate your hot spots, those are the places that detonation looks for, finds and then ruins your day.
Let us know what you find