I hear you and understand your sentiments.
Remember that you don't have to use cloth in one big piece.
You can cut manageable size pieces. Do a little test on the flat areas.
If you're worried about the ends unraveling/fraying just spray some
3M 77 adhesive along the cut line before.
If weight is the enemy then cloth/Epoxy is your friend.
From the photos your skill is way better than you think.
Trust me, I say you can do it.
Mike.